Whether you've been together for a short time or you've been in a relationship for years, communication is essential in a couple. We've prepared a list of intimate questions to spice up your daily life, learn more about your partner's secret thoughts, better understand his or her desires, strengthen your complicity and live a more fulfilling relationship.

A simple and effective couple game

You can think of these short questions as a couple's game to be shared with trust and respect. If each of you feels comfortable with the principle, you can take turns asking each other the questions orally. You can also answer these questions on your own in writing and send each other your answers during the course of a normal day before meeting again in the evening (with your hearts full of love and your heads full of fantasies!).

1-The questions to ask to better understand each other
  1. What is the most important thing for you in our intimate and sexual life?
  2. How did you feel the first time you saw me?
  3. How did you feel the first time we kissed?
  4. When was the last time you felt excitement when you saw me?
  5. What is for you the best intimate moment that we could live?
  6. Is there anything that makes you feel comfortable with me?
  7. Could you describe to me what you feel during an orgasm?
2-The questions to ask to say what you like
  1. What is the best thing about bed for you?
  2. Where do you prefer to be stroked?
  3. What is your favorite part of my body?
  4. Which sextoy would you like to play with?
  5. In which unusual place would you like to make love?
  6. What would you like me to whisper in your ear the next time we make love?
3-The questions to ask to break the taboos
  1. What is it that you never dared to ask me?
  2. Could you describe your last erotic dream ?
  3. What sexual practice would you like us to experience together?
  4. What is your most secret sexual fantasy, the craziest thing you'd like to try?
  5. What new experience would you like to have with me?
  6. Is there anything you want that you have never dared to ask me? Can you describe it to me?
  7. Is there a practice you don't like to try?

You can adapt this list of questions to your desires...

If there are any questions that you feel uncomfortable with, don't force yourself to answer them and leave them out.

If you have other ideas of questions in mind, you can add your own questions to our list to spice up this little naughty game.

And if you need a little help to break the taboos and dare to undertake new intimate things with your partner, we advise you to test the new application Melba...

And enrich the experience of this question game by discovering other couple games

Melba is aimed at couples by offering them immersive audio guided experiences for two. Each episode lasts about 20 minutes, during which couples are guided by a voice that gives them live instructions, gesture after gesture. Inviting a voice into one's intimacy is very exciting, and the fact of being guided allows one to dare to do things that one would not necessarily have dared to do or ask for in normal circumstances.

While being a fun experience, Melba episodes allow all couples to explore their sexuality in a caring environment. It's a concept that's for everyone, whether you're looking for ways to take care of your intimacy, are curious to learn new things, want to spice up your sexuality or simply want to share a special moment.

You may wonder when is the best time to play with this application? There is no perfect time: the ideal time is the one that best suits your lover and yourself! But don't wait too long to experience this with your partner: life is short and love is a precious thing that must be cultivated every day.

These little ideas should help you get to know your partner better and get rid of some of the taboos while taking care of your relationship. So, what do you do? Try our list of 20 questions and share a unique and fun intimate moment? You'll love it: we promise!