1- Try guided guided sex by a voice

For some time now, more and more erotic podcasts have been available to feed the erotic imagination and to live masturbatory experiences. The TEASY application is a newcomer to the sector, and it is well worth a look because it is aimed at couples and offers voice-guided experiences for two: the voice guides the partners by giving them instructions (how to position themselves, what to do, at what pace, etc.) for about 20 minutes. The benefits? Inviting a voice into one's intimacy is very exciting, the fact of being guided allows one to dare to do things that one would not necessarily have dared to do or ask for in normal circumstances, the scenarios are very varied, allowing one to discover new practices, to try out role-playing or to learn about Slow sex. 

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2- Use accessories (and not always sex toys)

When we talk about accessories and sexuality, we often think of sex toys which are very popular and are indeed an excellent way to spice up everyday life. But an accessory can also simply be a scarf to bandage the eyes of his or her partner or tie him or her up, perfumed oil to try sensual massages or small candles to create a subdued atmosphere: anything that can break the routine and change the sexual script. 

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3- Make appointments (to fantasize beforehand)

Planning a sexual encounter can seem unglamorous because it lacks spontaneity, but it can actually be very exciting. Schedule a weekend away from the kids if you have them, meet in a hotel as casual lovers, sleep away from home or meet at home in the middle of the day after exchanging exciting messages... To break with habits, there is nothing better than to create a new environment to let your imagination run wild and strengthen your bonds. 

4- Playing with words

We are not always aware of the erotic power of words, and yet they can be a powerful engine of desire. Sending a little naughty message to your partner will increase the excitement before you meet. Whether you're hundreds of miles away or in the next room, sexting generates powerful desire. 

We can also use language during sex, by saying what we like to further eroticize the relationship or by practicing dirty talk as an erotic game

And then we can also talk about what we like after sex or at other times, to talk about our fantasies, the practices we would like to try and those we particularly like to do (and do again) with our partner. 

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5- Kissing more (simply by taking the time)

Here is something very simple to put in place! Kissing while listening to your sensations, consciously, at any time, even and especially when the other person is not expecting it at all, allows you to revive the desire within the couple. On the contrary, kissing mechanically (or not kissing at all) will have a negative impact on the feeling of connection and the carnal link.