A unique guide to fellatio?

Fellatio is a practice loaded with representations. For the people who do it, fellatio can be very intimidating. We don't thank all those X-rated movies that make us believe that we should be able to do feats with our mouth and throat to satisfy our partners with penises.

In reality, there is no one right way to perform fellatio. As your partners will tell you, not everyone likes to be touched in the same way, in the same place. So the good news is that you and your partner are free to explore how to give and receive pleasure around oral sex!

Some tips for your toolbox

Here are some tips to keep in mind to maximize the enjoyment of your experience!

  • Ask for your partner's consent before you engage: basic, simple. Whether it's a long-term relationship or a one-night stand, it's important to make sure your partner consents to every practice you engage in. Plus, it's very sexy, and it will get you in the mood right away!
  • Ask yourself what you want: you may feel pressure to perform certain practices. Ask yourself about your desires as well as your non-desires, and listen to what your body is telling you.
  • Listen to your partner: by asking questions, either during the act or afterwards (does it feel good when I do this?). You can also pay attention to all the signals he/she sends you during: his/her breathing, his/her body language, his/her sounds of pleasure and moans... Let yourself be guided by your partner's words or gestures, welcome his/her advice and feedback, and try to put yourself in his/her shoes. Put your ego aside and keep in mind that your partner is exploring as much as you are: it's a common search for pleasure 🔥
  • Explore: by varying your gestures, by not focusing on a single area, by trying different caresses, by changing the rhythm, by testing different positions...
  • Protect yourself, of course, in ways that are appropriate for your situation. To protect yourself from certain oral infections and diseases, you can use condoms.

Does everyone like oral sex?

Our goal is to help you live a fulfilling sexuality, the one that suits you. If talking about certain practices or sometimes thorny subjects is necessary to break down taboos, we want to remind you of a few points. Sex is absolutely not necessary to a fulfilling life as a couple, and although it can be a way to show affection, intimacy is not limited to sex. Also, we all have our own preferences and desires, and you may not be interested in or even like some of the practices we're talking about, and that's totally okay!

Finally, whether you are the "giver" or the "receiver", take these intimate moments for what they are: moments of pleasure. No contest to be the best, no obligation to "go to orgasm", no, let yourself live these moments fully and feel all the sensations!

Conclusion

What if to get your kicks, you first had to stop worrying?